Rebel, Rest, Repeat....


I usually love summer so much that I don’t spend a single second of it in anything but pure joy.
But this year hits different.

I’m tired. Like… soul tired. I don’t know if it’s just me, if it’s the chaos unfolding around us, or if maybe I just need a damn vacation.

Either way, it’s reminding me that balance doesn’t come from the world outside. It comes from within.

And around here? That means a little rebellion, a lot of rest, and finding the kind of beautiful distractions that soothe the soul.

So today, I want to share a bit of both with you...

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The Necessary Act of Beautiful Distractions

I coined the term beautiful distractions as an act of joyous rebellion against a system designed to keep us overwhelmed, traumatized, and powerless. In a political climate hell-bent on chaos and control, choosing joy, beauty, and calmness is not frivolous—it is revolutionary.

Because in the war against fascism, staying soft and rooted in pleasure is one of our greatest weapons. It’s the opposite of what they want. It’s how we reclaim our sovereignty.

NEW LIVE SESSION: Hexing the Patriarchy

Honoring ALL your emotions is so important, which including your anger. If you're pissed off about what's going on right now and want to alchemize that anger... this is for you.

Usually I only share classes like this inside of my Soft Life Society... but I thought this one might be important enough to open up to anyone who wanted to join in.

So for this special session, we're going to do some group spellwork together, and you're invited to attend. It's live on June 3rd at 7 pm central time, but it is just as impactful on the replay (which you get access to when you join.)


Playlist of the Week: Get in a Good Mood

I share a playlist with almost every email because honestly there is nothing that can change my mood faster than a great playlist. And this one is fun, lighthearted and definitely a vibe.

Today I'm listening to it as I paint my front door so I can infuse a bit of creativity into my day (which is always another good mood booster!)

Hope this made your day a bit brighter!

Remember... all things in moderation - including moderation.

You can set boundaries as needed to protect your energy and focus on the magic instead of the madness.

Because you're far better off being too rested than you are too burned out.

Sending you lots of love,

The June issue of Illumine is here (and ready to ship!)

Embrace the summer of magic with the newest issue of Illumine. Inside you'll find solstice rituals, fun summer recipes and more.

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